As readers, so much of a reading is guided by what we believe is possible. We might have expectations, ideas of what the reading is going to be like, or how it would look if it's successful. But often those ideas get in the way of what would be truly transformational for the client. It makes you fight the flow of energy and information, and not let through everything that wants to come through. The more we try to control the reading, the more it constricts the energy of it, and the more our brain gets involved.
A good spiritual practice before doing readings is to remind yourself to soften your heart, soften your mind, and open up to anything and everything that needs to come through, even if it doesn't match your ideas of what a reading "should look like". Release your own ideas, in order to allow through the best reading possible.
A reading is also guided by what we believe is possible for us to bring through. Or ideas of how accurate we can be (which for many of us, we don't believe we can be all that accurate). Not believing in yourself constricts a reading.
Another good spiritual practice before doing readings is to remind yourself to release your ideas of who you are & what's possible for you, and shift into seeing yourself as the infinite spirit that you truly are. Infinite spirit = anything is possible.
This is why I focus so much on mindset in my course "Courage & Clairs - confidence training for the intuitive reader", to stop readers from constricting the reading so much, and instead allow through a reading experience that is ultimately better than we can understand.
Soften your heart (open your heart), soften your mind (open your mind), allow yourself to expand.
Welcome! I am a 30 year old Medium and Animal Communicator. I am originally from Norway, but am currently living in Oregon, USA. This blog is to give you some insight into my life and work, as well as share some of my photography. Enjoy!